Again,once more i came across something that made me to contemplate for a while,as being a avid reader of love stories,romantic novels and seeing the spark of love blossoming around me and witnessing it from distance its treat to me, from the time couple start blushing when the one they love happen to meet each other,when others suspicion arouse that something fishy is cooking up between two people around them and pull the legs frequently, who, on the contrary, trying hard to hide saying its jst nothing more than good frienship,when den gradually after prolong hide and seek game dey accept they love each other,then the growth of their love amidst thick and think,countless petty breakup patchup,annoying the common friends seeking help and advice ,those tantrums keeping ego high,after a bitter brawl damn now its enough i am nt going to pick up his/her call nor i am going to call,fb block,what app block,almost being blocked from everywhere they used to talk to keeping distance to avoid each other, bragging amongst the friends cursing each other in every possible ways den,asserting its final decision fed up now i just can’t tolerate this anymore,like everytime# its finally over from my side#although,on the other side the most ignorant friends giving their best shot to help them arranging unexpected meetings for them secretly,trying to convince saying give one more chance to him/her,prividing different new numbers to convince them to resolve things,devising countless new ways being cupid ,to help them saying you people are best match for each other come on# be mature,don‘t give up on each other# ,on the other side these disheartened people and this ceaseless drama saying listen its not a big deal #i can live away as well with high neck #even though hoping to get call from other side or keeping eyes sticking on the phone desperately as any notification pops up in the phone,most dramatic part crying and crying, the restless soul pondering on everthing,what he/she has accumulated since the first day of meeting till now-complains,hurt,ignorance,deceitf-ul at times,everything what was actually was nothing till now even it is vague in the memories,but to compensate the anger supressed inside over years you will outburst(both sides)emotional drama crying while cursing or cursing while crying and then the verdict- the unanimous decision rather, that can only lighten/alleviate their burdensome brain and painful heart,to meet each other face to face to sort out things than prefer to be called old flame of each other the most annoying part from friends perspective especially, on asking how come u people are together again??and the deadly counterreply -lyk everytime and most expected one arey yar that was nothing just a misunderstanding/miscommunication,now everything is going smoothly and then again,a few days after the same drama reoeatedly seeing over and over may reduce your interest on love by the fear of this drama.
The best part is when these tired of fighting on silly things people,the HOD of drama department people,finally after,years of drama,annoying friends at their best,decides to put the full stop in this drama episode of their voyage of life and bring parents to take the matter furthur and then,these hesitant soul officially now are engaged,soon to be hitched people…its something may be a difficult for the couple at times, to remain wid each other or a difficultest time of their life but i enjoy these love stories cannot resist enjoying every bit of it.
But,to my surprise something dishearten me every now and then when i see couples hiding their love marriage as if they are ashamed of telling people that its a sweet love marriage.
Final declaration by the couple to society-actually its an arrange marriage,our parents searched us for each other,our parents came across each other out of nowhere,just to make people believe its true .
Why do others happiness,society’s acceptance matters to us more than our own happiness??
I mean come on-you people are one among a very few couples especially in this generation where people finds true love in every person passes them by,even after spending decades wid each other,decides to part away calling other person immature to handle things,there was no compatibilty which i realise now, meanwhile ,i have brew love for someone else too,there is no understanding between us so there is no point to stay in relation,after unsurmountable hurdles and many other problems,you people are fortunate to find one who abide wid you,despite going through odd time too but not called it off lyk others,you should be proud to introduce each other as one,confident on the choice you made, you deserve applause not criticism instead of feeling ashamed.be confident for your love for each other,let the word know that true love never gives up and do exist now also,
why to hide it after all your happiness lies in other person’s happiness you are with.
And more over-
Will hiding your love marriage will make people stop talking nuisance about you and your family?
or perhaps,you are still in dillema ,not content with your life and partner,
are y not really proud to marry a person you love wholeheartedly??
how long will u be able to impress people/society and is it trully something worth it?…**$$